Parenting is a
hard work, especially when you have to do it alone. Single moms are a
fast-growing hunk of the population as societal norms, family values and
structures rapidly shifting. The world is a different place
than it was years back; the stigma of being a single mother is reducing [Great
News!].
The society would have been more efficient and well organized if
women's rights had taken effect earlier. Here is a statistic to get your head around, of the 130 million babies
born every year in the world, at least 48% have no information about their
father included on their birth information. More kids are now growing up with
only one parent, mostly the mother.
I am going to step down from my ambo now and tell both sides of the
story. Single moms are working hard to raise their kids and keep the house
going on their own hustle. These women just realize that the only thing that
‘he’ intended or contributed is the ejaculation and fertilization process;
however, it seems that the number of women who would rather have any man than
fall asleep alone is also on the rise.
I am not sorry to speak ill of my own
sex, because many male species have failed us. Some men bounce from one honeypot
to another, woman to woman, leaving a trail of unintended pregnancies and
unfortunately more kids that they do not intend to raise.
Historically,
women become single mothers for reasons such as widowed, divorced, unplanned
pregnancy, unwilling father, break-up, abandonment, adoption and the latest is by
choice. Some women choose to become pregnant and parent the kid on their own;
this is "Single Mother by Choice".
Many turn to single motherhood by
choice after not finding the right partner to raise children with or it often
comes out of a desire to have biological children before it is too late to do
so. In addition, economic empowerment
has given women more bargaining power within the society; thus reducing the
need to live with an income-earning partner.
Commonly, another cause is a break-up,
which occurs when the relationship between both partners has gone cold due to
infidelity, misunderstanding, or other reasons. A legal consequence that
follows such emotional break down is a divorce, though not all break ups lead
to divorce. When separation takes place in a relationship and one party leaves
without going through legal process of divorce, mostly the woman bears the
burden of raising the kid(s).
A sophisticated statistical analysis suggests
that poverty does not prevent men from supporting their kids. I am reaching out to all mothers, please teach your sons to take
care of their seeds and to respect women. In addition, please teach your
daughters to respect themselves enough to know that it is fine to sleep alone.
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